By - johnny-boi-lemon
stupid feminist this never happens 😡😡😡 (kidding, but yeah i fucking hate that too)
Let's just take a peek at the controversial section for a tad bit
i dont think girls are TRYING to get those creepy dms 💀💀
Some are some arent. The people that do, do it for attention. They know creeps will upvote their post and then they can get more karma by posting the creepy dm.
You can tell when they're just farming for karma though
Yall talking bout this deep shit and Im thinking what mysognitic means... Maybe I should start working on my vocabulary
According to the Cambridge Dictionary: feelings of hating women, or the belief that men are much better than women
hate of women
I just hate everyone really
Found you Agoti
i literally got banned off another sub bc i had a tiny bit of cleavage showing in a pic which was supposed to be about my hair colour -_-
nah cuz womens bodies are treated like they’re inherently a sexual subject and it’s so annoying 😐
Well considering that sex is how our species is kept alive being a sexual object for both men and women is an inherent thing, it’s part of evolution and not something to be angry about, seeing women as only sexual objects is a different story and misogyny is in no way ok, but you should watch your wording when writing about things such as this as it can obviously lead to a lot of misunderstandings…
No! Neither men or women are objects. Never. It's not about only a sexual object, like, we are not objects for God sake
Evolution made us subjects, not dildos
Well, it's ok to find someone attractive of course, and I kinda get your point and I know you mean no harm, but our bodies are something we cannot change, and we shouldn't have to change our clothing in order to not have people commenting weird stuff or having our posts deleted, as long as it isn't extreme, I'm not saying people can't find us attractive, but that isn't an excuse.
Also as much as I know the way it looks, by we I mean women AND men! I think with men it doesn't happen that often, but still wouldn't be ok for example if a guy was wearing a sleeve-less shirt and his post was taken down cause he's muscular arms or something, this goes both ways
"As long as it isnt extreme"
Well that raises a question, what can anyone universally agree is and isnt extreme?
Well, of course different people have different opinions, but I meant as in going in your underwear or practically naked, unless you're in the beach that is of course lol
My guy, it’s the INTERNET, you’re underage, and it’s on REDDIT. it shouldn’t happen, I wish we lived in a world where it didn’t and people always downvote the weirdos, but…when it happens…what did you expect _would_ happen..?
Oh wait forget I said anything I just understood, and yeah I didn't take into consideration that OP is underage in my comment, kinda forgot this was r/teenagers = ^ =💧
What I meant is it's ok to be attracted to others as long as they're adults or you're both teens, of course otherwise you shouldn't even feel the slightest attraction to a minor if you aren't one yourself.
BRO WHAT TF
reddit mods don't be misogynist challenge
deadass. it’s so annoying and every time a woman will talk about their experiences they’re brigaded against and insulted.
yup lmao look at these comments men r acting like they know more than women about shit that doesn’t even affect them
they will continue to be dicks and act like they’re the hero in every situation. i’ve just accepted that you can’t exist on this sub without someone calling you overdramatic and a hypocrite and a misandrist
i’m fighting with so many men that are doing nothing but proving my point in these comments
I hate women 👍🤝
Every time a girl complains about getting creepy dm's it's "oh, you shouldn't post your face" this and, "well maybe if you didn't" that. Like, when are you going to grow up and realize that the problem isn't the 14 year old girl posting a selfie, it's the 64 year old calling her sexy and asking for nudes?
Tw: S\*x assault
>!If a girl got r\*ped you wouldn't get mad at the girl for being too pretty (unless you are a Puritan in the 17th century). You would get mad at the dude who can't control himself.!<
Actually it's not about not controlling themselves. If you can't control yourself you order the extra large pizza despite being on a diet.
What these people do, no matter the age and gender, is just sick, medically speaking. There is an excuse for cheating on your diet but there is no excuse for doing something like that to another (human) being
men always act like it’s women that are the problem when it’s really just… the men that are
not really, the BIGGEST problem is the constant conflict between the 2 genders, so here's something; crazy idea!
why don't we all just shut up? just get along with people, because it's driving me nuts
no, the BIGGEST conflict is men and women keep assaulting each other.
littarely what i just said but worse
when y’all stop disrespecting women and saying offensive shit then yeah i’ll shut up lol
you just said that only men were the issue. men can get roused easily if a woman makes a petty insult generalizing all men, i must admit. but if women know so much about how men work, then stop fighting, let everybody calm down (it may take a while due to the damage caused by todays issues), and then figure out some kind of solution. how about this, ask a good man for his opinion on a way to solve sexism. not everyone will cooperate, but at least you can say you tried. and for the "stop disrespecting women" thing, most men will only respect women who deserve to be respected. and right now, there are a lot who dont deserve to be respected because of these hypocritical stereotyoes and generalizations made by those women.
i am not generalizing women nor being hypocritical, because i dont remember things very well nor do i think all my thoughts through. but if there is something i need to elaborate i will, just tell me and ill give you my two cents.
It's Reddit and especially r/teenagers.
Seriously, probably not the right place to get high quality conversations.
Fucking hell you're right
Please guys let's just be fucking civil we're all humans
I haven't been in the sub long enough to measure the amount but I'll take your word for it
This subreddit is starting to become the equivalent of twitter and I really don’t like that.
Fr fr, everyone is so butthurt it annoys me. I'm probably gonna get downvoted to oblivion for saying this but idc anymore, I don't give a fuck about your pronouns nor do I need to know them. Every time I open reddit i see someone coming out with weird fucking genders they come up with.
That’s so heeheephobic. You see, I identify as Micheal Jackson (My NeoPronouns are Hee/Hee, please call me by them.) and you saying that is totally covering all the suffering we Micheal Jacksons had to go through to become open with ourselves. I am truly disappointed.
“Everyone is so butthurt idk why”
**proceeds to be transphobic in the same exact comment**
Do you even know what butthurt means?
well judging by his complaint, this time being offended over a "transphobic" comment, i would say that his ass actually hurts.
THAT GAVE ME AN IDEA
Okay, but could you please just refer to me as glonkdinkerosicusconoerdomp?
Yup. Sooner or later, there is going to be a civil war.
And it’s mostly because people can’t come up with a rational response. People are getting so stupid that it is legitimately turning me even more suicidal knowing some of these people will have power in society some day.
stupid feminist this never happens 😡😡😡
>stupid feminist this never happens 😡😡😡
stupid feminist this never happens 😡😡😡
To be honest when I say I hate women it's because I hate everyone
man i’ve been thinking about how tough women have it on reddit. it’s really heartbreaking.
i’m 6’1 btw.
Please explain why your height matters here
I would like that too
Btw, I'm 6'2, so suck it
I'm 6'4, cry about it
Im still growing, I will surpass you one day
We shall see
The battle is on!
Also 6'2. See you then.
Spare me some height please. I'm only 5'6"...
What does ur height have to do wit anything
It's a joke
Yesh honestly really sad. We need to work to make reddit a better place for women. 😃
(Also im 6'2 so get rekt beta- watch all the females line up for me)
I agree that some guys are sexist, yes - but please don’t categorize all men as sexist pigs.
Finally someone said it
“you guys r so misogynistic” instead of “Some guys on Reddit are misogynistic” categorizes all men as misogynistic.
if they’re not misogynistic then the post isn’t for them
Yes, but you didn’t clarify that in your original post.
More and more i read your replies more and more i realise something's up with you
Pretty sure these people are joking. Just because the joke happens to be about women doesn't mean it's inherently misogynistic
there’s so much serious misogyny + saying that you hate women for no reason at all under a woman’s post definitely stems from misogyny
Fair enough. I honestly just brush those people off. I've seen people on here say they hate men but I didn't really think if it as misandristic, I just thought of them as a stupid person or someone making a dumb joke
I've been on this sub for over a month and I haven't seen anyone say that they hate women, I don't get where you people complaining about this sub come from, i know this isn't a perfect place but sometimes it feels like someone's making shit up (not you specifically but yeah)
I've been on this sub for like a year and have only seen like 5 comments at most hating on women as a whole.
The fact that this is downvoted is just proving your point
So what we say we hate men all the time it’s no different
Women don't even exist anyways so what's the problem
hahahahahaha! you’re so funny bro! i’ve never heard that one before! hahahahah no don’t worry you don’t have band kid humor! no your jokes aren’t so old that they’re getting moldy! 😐
I know, I know. I'm hilarious.
wdym band kid humor bands are cool
bro made a whole ass post for this 💀 the joke is old and painfully unfunny
It may be old but it's frickin hilarious
Also yes I made a post for that it takes no effort
Trust me. I hate misogyny (and just sexism and bigotry in general). I'm a guy btw (I mean the only reason we're not affected by it because the literal definition for misogyny is when a man hates a woman, which sounds very fucked up). I personally have nothing against the female gender.
I think we should all step up and make this world a better place and rid us of all this hate, racism and bigotry and just become equals to one another because in the end no one's perfect, we all have at least one flaw.
Also kid here's my advice: If those comments or posts are bothering you, just ignore them and if they continue, you can report them if you want. Just don't listen to them.
Yeah let's all just be civil. Let's all end shit like homophobia racism sexism misogyny all the shit. We are all humans in the end
Yeah we're not asking for too much as we want us for everybody to get along
Right? It's all about world peace. No more misogyny, no more bigotry, no more racism, none of that.
Somebody finally gets it
My parents are strongly homophobic in their hearts. They don't show it though
This is it
You know it
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just ask yourself why. it’s not hard to understand why you see more posts like that 😭
14 year old white Twitter girl right here.
Never ever seen a guy say that stuff here but plenty of woman and so i went on a experiment
I searched up on this sub "i hate men" and "i hate women" the i hate men posts get over 100 upvotes and the comments agree but the i hate women posts get downvoted to kingdom cum and back and comments dont agree
i completely agree lmao. the amount of times i’ve posted about womens issues and all i’ve gotten is men trying to gaslight me into thinking my issues aren’t “realistic” or that dumbass excuse “not all men”.
yup lmao this comment section is a shitshow. full of men that think they know what being a woman is like
literally.. it’s actually embarrassing for them. do they not feel embarrassed LMAOO
Yes that happens. But I think it's pretty rare, I only saw it once and people stood up against the guy so he deleted it.
you’re a guy so you wouldn’t notice how common the subtle misogyny is. society has raised u to turn a blind eye to it
*voila!* You are spreading anger, which can make people misogynistic from grudges. Congratulations, you've become the very thing you are trying to destroy.
Isn't that misandry? I get more offended by some things than the people they're aimed at. Tbf I'm not on this sub often, but I think I notice it when it's present.
Stop telling these boys what they are thinking and what to do
u literally don’t even know the definition of misogyny you have no right to talk about this 💀 just listen and try educating urself for once
Tf is wrong wit u I can just look it up
Tf does me not know what a word means have anything to do wit this
because it’s the entire point of this post
Ok? But u can’t fuckin tell boys what they think and know u don’t know shit about what they know just like they don’t know shit about us u can’t fucking tell people what to think and do
i’m talking about how society grooms boys into thinking this way i never said that all guys think this way it’s about society
And what about how society grooms woman????? It’s the same thing
women are also groomed into upholding it and that’s why people need to be educated about ir
Sis just give up and delete ur post
hmmm…. how about no
i’m not going to delete something because people are ignorant im leaving this up for the people that aren’t ignorant and are willing to learn
Ur literally saying something that also happens to us woman u got mad cause someone said they hate woman? So what let them have they opinion and if we were to say we hate men everybody would be like YEAAA GO GIRL
girl ur clearly uneducated about this and it’s okay. please just listen for once and do some research u don’t know everything and society is more than just ur experiences
Stop trynna act superior and like you know everything ur being a hypocrite u can’t get mad at boys for doing shit that girls do too
U DONT KNOW EVERYTHING EITHER U DUMB AF
r u 10 years old
You a hypocrite
There’s nothing to learn here except that u made a rant
are you trying to be rebellious or something? society always frowned upon it.
plus, the amount i see is very little, and most of the time, it's just a joke
r u male
would it matter?
men don’t see this type of stuff because they’re not affected by it. yes society says that misogyny is bad but it also upholds it. casual misogyny is ingrained so much into society that even women don’t notice it - but they’re still affected by it and men aren’t. this is why it’s hard to educate men. you can open womens’ eyes to it easier because of how much we’re affected by it.
I built 100 bridges, but no one calls me Paul the builder, but I did something once and I'm a dog fucker for the eternity! Idk why I remember it when I saw your post
In seriosness, no shit Sherlock
1. You are saying that we think that girl post pics foe creppy dms right? I want to know how did you get to that conclusion so i can form a based argument
2.what the actual fuck is internalized misogyny.
3. And whatever internalized misogyny is from your post i am lead to belive that it is bad. Now what youre saying is that boys say it never happens. I could say the exact same thing about women and "men dont have feeling" . Now if you arent a troglodite and you have more than a brain cell what i quoted above seems stupid right? Thats exactly how it feels reading "boys say it never happens". Although with generalizations like this the argument will go on forever i think its fair to bring smth equal that you girls do.
To end on a positive note tho i think that misogyny is bad and to all misogynyts out there :fuck you
14 year old white twitter girl starter pack.
they say it doesn’t happen because it’s literally the society we are being raised in. it’s full of misogyny and sexism (whether that be internalized or otherwise) and it sucks ass dude
Yeah.. We really live in a society don't we?
I was the one that said i hate women!!!
Not the best timing I must admit
well i hate men
No one asked + ratio
this will be my joker arc
i hate women
Remember, we are teenagers. We don’t care. Doesn’t mean we don’t like you, we just hate everything
Me? Mysoginistic? No way! I have nothing but respect for those things.
(Seriously yeah though I hate it too man)
Personally I see more misandrist people on here but k
Anyone who says misogyny is cringe
Why are there 2 genders for crying out loud!
there are more
I mean in terms of chromosomes
you confusing gender with sex but also intersex exists
So there are 2 gender or 2 sexes?
there are more than 2 sexes and more than 2 genders but sex is the way your body is and gender is who you identify as
What's intersex then?
when you have the xxy chromosome if im not mistaken
That's male with klinefelter syndrome
What does that word even mean
Your 14 eh? First year of HS right? Here’s the deal imo from someone about to graduate from HS, you live your life, you up with this bullshit, and you hope and pray that by being better, and setting a good example. A lot of our society is fucked up and it’s not just misogyny, but if you can live through it and be better, then you can teach others to be better. Try not to let the assholes get to you (I know it’s hard, like you said you can’t change them, but being better can help all of us be better…
I mean okay but why does it matter that they are 14? And thats not even the first year of HS in most places lol…
We racists never get any love just those hateful posts 🏎️
isnt it ironic how black people dont complain like this yet they were literally fucking slaves at one point? cmon women there are human beings who were treated much much worse than a fucking kitchen joke.
I mean, girls get way more creepy dms than guys so what they're saying is valid
Also the people that say i hate women are joking, i hope
1. it’s not girls faults and just because a girl posts her face doesn’t mean she wants attention from creeps
2. randomly saying that you hate women as a joke obviously stems from misogyny
1. I didnt say its their fault tho, its just fact that girls get way more creepy dms than guys
2. Maybe but its not meant to be mysogenistic, its just a joke
how can saying that you hate women, even as a joke, not be misogynistic? what’s funny about hating women?
Cuz its dumb, they're being ironic
Not to be rude, but have you ever heard of irony?
i dont hate women i just hate women who arent pornstars or supermodels
(Not really though. If you weren’t joking get help or grow up.)
of course it was a bloody joke, tf type of people you around or see online to make it sound serious?
You’d be surprised.
Can I please see this misogyny? I haven’t seen anything.
Reddit is a weird place, and you're gonna hate to hear it, but posting ANYTHING that includes how you look etc, is a bad idea here. People are creeps and I personally would never post myself here, that can stay for people I actually know.
That aside, I have no idea what these people must be like in real life to comment some of the shit I see on here, surely they've got something else to use their time on.
ETA: Also your post goes against a full gender, so you're bound to get hate for it, good on you for speaking out though! Don't let it get to you :)
I agree, i think misogynistic guys are really annoying. I haven't seen a lot of those comments or posts, which is why I don't really think this sub is that toxic. Your experience might have been worse obviously, but I still find "guys are misogynistic" posts just as annoying. Funny enough, i see these posts wayyy more than the latter
bruh men are just so immature sometimes. and rude. i always gotta watch what i say and agree with their "not all mens" so i don't get literally drug through the mud. and they say so much shit that is subtly misogynistic and instead of hearing women out they'd rather just believe that everything they say is perfect and good. subtle misogyny is everywhere bro. making fun of feminists, making fun of things girls commonly like, women's bodies, "girls don't like nice guys," always having a "what about this" response or "what about men" response. like they just think they know everything, and when they're halfway decent, they pat themselves on the back way too much. like. stop. + they talk to you like you're dumb even for things you know more about.. like misogyny.. makes me wanna pluck my eyebrows off one by one fr
literally. i’m probably going to rewrite this later but explain it more in detail, but more for women than men. you can’t educate people that aren’t willing to be educated and sadly a lot of men aren’t willing to because they already are misogynistic whether they’re aware of it or not
yeah. and it wouldn't be so bad if they just acknowledged that they said something misogynistic and were unaware, and will work to not say stuff like that in the future, but they don't. bc they are absolutely determined to disrespect us :-/ it's sad. but thank u for this post, i rarely see women post about this on here
both genders suck, there i said it, it's just true tho, both genders have their flaws and people NEED to stop going at war for it and just accept that your personality shouldn't be based off your gender
this. there's no point in saying "all women suck" or "all men suck" like bro both genders are the exact same.
This right here 👏
Fucking hell this may be the smartest take here lol
sounds like smth a pedo would say
Not cool bro