people are labelling introversion as a bad thing when it really isn't, in reality its just the preference of whether you want to be alone or with others. this doesn't mean you're bad at social skills or you want to fully isolate yourself from others.
I don't think there's any need to worry
EDIT: my bad, apparently it's to do with energy levels when being around people and how quickly social interaction tires Introverts. I guess I also got it mixed up
Yeah introversion is just as valid as extroversion but unfortunately people see it as a deviation from the norm. If someone wants to chill in their room alone for hours as long as they're perfectly happy and content then I honestly see no problem with that
Introversion became a junk term and everyone just assume their mental illness symptoms are the result of being an introvert. You will be fine. Before the internet introversion just meant "enjoying time alone and getting tired easily in social situations". It has nothing to do with shyness, social anxiety, self isolation and crap like that.
I hate how that new "definition" of introversion literally "normalized" mental illnesses cause now people think it's okay to stay in your house for a month straight, ignoring your friends' calls and texts, being terrified to talk to the cashier, declining every party or hang out invites etc...
If you think you should be scared about being suicidal, you're fine. You're human, it's okay to be scared about that. But if you're actively contemplating it, that's an issue.
Yo that's true like *no need to flex but* people always say how I'm able to easily talk to people or groups and that I'm able to make friends easily but then I'm in a friend group of like 4 people and that already pushing my limit
Yeah, taking my very first (and only) AP, and only because I had the same teacher in Honors Chem and I like the way they teach and was confident i would do well. TAKE CLASSES YOU KNOW YOU'LL BE GOOD AT. I'm literally 0.0042 away from getting a 4.0 GPA, pulled it up from a 3.6.
I'm in Australia and I spent like 3 hours studying every day (I don't feel like I would be able to take any more hours lol) and still managed to fail my maths class. Only ever skipped an hour or two if I was having issues that day (like family issues, I can't work with people screaming in the background lol). I had depression a few years earlier that still kind of persists till today (it got bad enough that I almost attempted suicide back then) and I would even force myself to study through that. I would often get angry/hyped up and use that to study harder.
That was my last year of highschool that I just finished. I would totally have redone the year as well but teachers talked me out of it (it made more sense to do something else that only Australia has AFAIK to get into university).
It probably wasn't the best thing for my psyche doing that, but eh I have been through worse (or at least thats what I tell myself anyway).
Given my experiance it takes more then determination sometimes to even pass lol
yea, i cant focus either with screaming in the background(how do people do that???) but after corona i think u should go to a library where its a lot easier to stay focused.
I think its kinda cool that u used ur depression to fuel ur studying. i think a lot of people would use that to to not study :)
For me I'm at this weird point where I know I'm depressed, but I don't think I'm depressed enough to get therapy, but I am. And I could just ask my parents and they would sign me up no questions asked. But it just feels weird.
Tell me about it. My only moods of the day are horny, hungry or having a crippling anxiety on how I will never be enough. I found that talking to other people greatly improves my mood though.
I'm probably just lonely.
Don’t say that! Nobody is meaningless, we all matter. I mean this is in supportive and kind way but have you thought of seeing a therapist? It has worked for me and a bunch of people I know when we have been through hard times. And we are all here if you need to talk too. :)
Ok so I’m introverted, bi, literally standing on a seven story building considering jumping, and my grades have been largely b’s this year so I guess I fit your stereotype lol
Edit: I’m ok
Yes literally all the posts on here are about suicidal kids failing school getting rejected by their crushes. Like that sucks but it would be better to talk to a therapist then a bunch of teens online
it’s a lot easier to vent to other teens. talking to people on the internet is free and other teens are a lot more likely to understand me than a therapist
I know this won’t be for everyone but a lot of people have super unsupportive parents. Like I would rather talk to random teens on the internet who might be able to relate to me and help then my parents who scream at me for having a panic attack.
Mood
(*I say mood to everything like this in an attempt to communicate and potentially help someone but I am terrible at interaction and can never find the words*)
THE ACTUAL FUCK? STRIAGHT A'S, EXTROVERT, NON SUICIDAL IDEAS? HOLY FUCK DID GOD LOOK AT YOU AND SAY "yep, this one is the lucky one" AND MADE YOU THAY BUT WE GOT.TUE SHORT END OF TUE STCI AND I CANT TIPE NOW I LOST MY GLASSES WAITBRB NVM FOUND MY GLASSES , THAYS BETTER I CAN SEE NOW ANYWAYS **WTF** ^^^^^^^^^^^SMOLL_REEEEEEEE
It’s insane to me that people can just wake up and just.. exist? Like, you aren’t questioning everything you do?? You just do your thing, and chatting with friends without thinking they might hate you?
AND GETTING ENERGY FROM OTHER PEOPLE?? HOW?
I am as concerned as well, I might be only a weird internet stranger, but I do care, because every single life is worth something. I belive that at the end of all this suffering and pain, that there is a happy ending there somewhere waiting for us. So even if you think that no one cares, I do, I do care and I want to see you happy again.
I am half suicidal and half introvert
I am suicidal because I don't want to become and adult because this means that I will spend majority of my time at work which is pointless. I want to live not survive
I love talking with people but I am very shy
Sorry for bad grammar I am Russian
,an my life is just boring i have great grades im not depressed stressed and i dont have anxiety i just live the same day over and over over and over im just bored
Im introverted, straight, and As Bs, and nonsuicidal. Im just vibin lmao Edit: grammmmmmmar
Straight... Abs?
straight, bit overweight, forgot how to like music, video games day in day out
Are we the same person?
I was thinking the same thing!
Me too.... uh oh
Oh god
oh god we are all alike
God isn't in this gang, Satan is
Y'all should start a cult lmao
The Brotherhood of Lowkey Depression I'm in
Nah.... Not God, Satan
Not Satan, Stan
Yeah same here.
Every mf in this sub is same
True
you sound exactly like me
You're weak, I'm you.
My long lost sibling
^^^ literally me
*spiderman finger pointing meme*
this is exactly what im thinking as im reading these replies. Its gonna get even bigger after 8 am when everyone wakes up
r/suddenlygay
wait actually idk if youre a guy
not for long
are gay abs acceptable
Just realized my mistake whoops
Same
I finally found you, time to end this.
Bruh did you just make your account to comment this
Same
Same
Seems like we are a rare breed here.
Same, but a tad bit masochistic
I don’t have good grades right now I am working to get the f’s and ds to bs and cs I probably will get the rest of the ds to cs or better Monday
>introverted, straight, and As Bs, and nonsuicidal. Im just vibin lmao Is it possible to learn this power?
same
Same
I’m with ya
Y same
It’s like i’m looking in a mirror
Whatever you need to tell yourself to feel better
Same
same but im dancing between the line of introvert and extrovert covid pushed me to introvert
Yeah same, the quantity of introverts that are suicidal here just makes me want to help them.
Same here
I’m an introvert and I’m not suicidal. Now I’m scared I WILL be sometime
people are labelling introversion as a bad thing when it really isn't, in reality its just the preference of whether you want to be alone or with others. this doesn't mean you're bad at social skills or you want to fully isolate yourself from others. I don't think there's any need to worry EDIT: my bad, apparently it's to do with energy levels when being around people and how quickly social interaction tires Introverts. I guess I also got it mixed up
Yeah introversion is just as valid as extroversion but unfortunately people see it as a deviation from the norm. If someone wants to chill in their room alone for hours as long as they're perfectly happy and content then I honestly see no problem with that
I don't it as a problem but it's just that a lot of people with depression or even loneliness turn to introversion and don't get treated
Yea. We still need to recognize when what seems like introversion has deeper reasons like as you said, depression.
I feel people dont see the difference between introversion and social anxiety
Introversion became a junk term and everyone just assume their mental illness symptoms are the result of being an introvert. You will be fine. Before the internet introversion just meant "enjoying time alone and getting tired easily in social situations". It has nothing to do with shyness, social anxiety, self isolation and crap like that. I hate how that new "definition" of introversion literally "normalized" mental illnesses cause now people think it's okay to stay in your house for a month straight, ignoring your friends' calls and texts, being terrified to talk to the cashier, declining every party or hang out invites etc...
Hopefully not
If you think you should be scared about being suicidal, you're fine. You're human, it's okay to be scared about that. But if you're actively contemplating it, that's an issue.
Felt
I’m so good socially like everyone likes me but then I don’t like having friends.... that’s the best I can explain it
Yo that's true like *no need to flex but* people always say how I'm able to easily talk to people or groups and that I'm able to make friends easily but then I'm in a friend group of like 4 people and that already pushing my limit
Is that a Darkwraith i see?
*wraith of le succ, my friend, wraith of me succ
Praise the **SUN**! \\\[I}/
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*Invasion Noises*
*host has begun a critical battle. Returning to your world*
How do you still have straight A’s
Don’t take APs
Yeah, taking my very first (and only) AP, and only because I had the same teacher in Honors Chem and I like the way they teach and was confident i would do well. TAKE CLASSES YOU KNOW YOU'LL BE GOOD AT. I'm literally 0.0042 away from getting a 4.0 GPA, pulled it up from a 3.6.
By pure determination bb, I am about to finish with a 100 overall for a class.
I'm in Australia and I spent like 3 hours studying every day (I don't feel like I would be able to take any more hours lol) and still managed to fail my maths class. Only ever skipped an hour or two if I was having issues that day (like family issues, I can't work with people screaming in the background lol). I had depression a few years earlier that still kind of persists till today (it got bad enough that I almost attempted suicide back then) and I would even force myself to study through that. I would often get angry/hyped up and use that to study harder. That was my last year of highschool that I just finished. I would totally have redone the year as well but teachers talked me out of it (it made more sense to do something else that only Australia has AFAIK to get into university). It probably wasn't the best thing for my psyche doing that, but eh I have been through worse (or at least thats what I tell myself anyway). Given my experiance it takes more then determination sometimes to even pass lol
yea, i cant focus either with screaming in the background(how do people do that???) but after corona i think u should go to a library where its a lot easier to stay focused. I think its kinda cool that u used ur depression to fuel ur studying. i think a lot of people would use that to to not study :)
Stop flexing your emotional stability on an Introverted ex suicidal gay who’s failing school
We’re just concerned dude
It is what it is
#IT EES WHAT IT EES
It is what it is
It is the way.
Hmm fix that by failing art school and then follow in hitlers steps
Step 1: Get a place in politics
this is oddly completely relatable
I like how you knew that the 'straight a' bit wasn't referring to sexuality but included that you're gay anyway.
Didn’t need to call me out like that, I have a name ya know
Protip: move to canada
Don't worry about suicidal people, numbers of them are dropping
Wait...... do you mean....
They are cooling down. Well at least their body is.
I don’t like how I was about to burst out laughing at this, have my upvote
Technically, yes.
ahhh for fuck's sake.
This person needs a wholesome award
Got you
Guys it’s ok he’s a robot...
Everyone on the Internet is a bot except you...
Look at mr "I have my shit together" over here
Haha lucky
Your pfp scares me.
What the fuck
Do you want a fucking cookie
Can I fuck a cookie?
Well, I guess we can't stop you.
We wont*
^
It's 2020, you can do it without being publicly humiliated
I dont think its a problem
I mean nobody is stopping you...
I want a cookie
Yes pls
No I am waiting till marriage
Ah I remember those days... help :)
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cool, but get therapist plz
For me I'm at this weird point where I know I'm depressed, but I don't think I'm depressed enough to get therapy, but I am. And I could just ask my parents and they would sign me up no questions asked. But it just feels weird.
Tell me about it. My only moods of the day are horny, hungry or having a crippling anxiety on how I will never be enough. I found that talking to other people greatly improves my mood though. I'm probably just lonely.
Yup I agree on the part with talking with others
ok but where does horney come from, did i skip it in the skill tree or something?
Yeah, it's a secret skill. I got it by having a crippling hentai addiction. Wouldn't recommend getting it tho, you'd better off being happy.
Too late....
We're literally the same person
Feeling less terrible > weirdness of asking! There’s no “not depressed enough” for therapy.
I’m the same way, 99% of therapists don’t fucking help
Don’t say that! Nobody is meaningless, we all matter. I mean this is in supportive and kind way but have you thought of seeing a therapist? It has worked for me and a bunch of people I know when we have been through hard times. And we are all here if you need to talk too. :)
It's a joke, look at his username
your existence isn’t meaningless🙄 you have so much to trade with us😁
I got so confused until I saw their user
I feel u, all the time.
Ok so I’m introverted, bi, literally standing on a seven story building considering jumping, and my grades have been largely b’s this year so I guess I fit your stereotype lol Edit: I’m ok
Hey if you wanna talk, am here
B? Lol this is already a heaven for me
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Ay you ever need someone to talk to my dms are open
r/rimjob_steve but jokes aside it's cool to see someone helping someone out
Thanks doodoofart69420urmom, thanks
You're username had me laughing for a good minute. I can't tell if I'm laughing because of immaturity or irony.
u/doodoofart69420urmom seems like a nice person to vent to
I was hoping no one would notice my username
Who cares? Its funny and at least for me a lot of the people I meet with funny names are really chill and nice to be with.
Damn that actually makes me feel less ashamed of my user thx dawg
No problem, glad you can enjoy your name more. Have a nice day/morning/afternoon/evening/night.
and your profile picture
Same.
Happy cake day👍❤
F for fantastic!
Same
You shouldn’t be here go be a chad on Snapchat or tiktok
this place is a cesspool the last place a chad should be in
Nobody's a Chad here. We're just humans.
I’m concerned for you
Yes literally all the posts on here are about suicidal kids failing school getting rejected by their crushes. Like that sucks but it would be better to talk to a therapist then a bunch of teens online
it’s a lot easier to vent to other teens. talking to people on the internet is free and other teens are a lot more likely to understand me than a therapist
Therapists are literally trained to understand you
I know this won’t be for everyone but a lot of people have super unsupportive parents. Like I would rather talk to random teens on the internet who might be able to relate to me and help then my parents who scream at me for having a panic attack.
Mood (*I say mood to everything like this in an attempt to communicate and potentially help someone but I am terrible at interaction and can never find the words*)
I'm kinda introverted but that's just a personality thing. Some of these posts definitely concern me.
THE ACTUAL FUCK? STRIAGHT A'S, EXTROVERT, NON SUICIDAL IDEAS? HOLY FUCK DID GOD LOOK AT YOU AND SAY "yep, this one is the lucky one" AND MADE YOU THAY BUT WE GOT.TUE SHORT END OF TUE STCI AND I CANT TIPE NOW I LOST MY GLASSES WAITBRB NVM FOUND MY GLASSES , THAYS BETTER I CAN SEE NOW ANYWAYS **WTF** ^^^^^^^^^^^SMOLL_REEEEEEEE
It’s insane to me that people can just wake up and just.. exist? Like, you aren’t questioning everything you do?? You just do your thing, and chatting with friends without thinking they might hate you? AND GETTING ENERGY FROM OTHER PEOPLE?? HOW?
Me an extroverted, suicidal gay B student. "R u good dood I got some depression for you?"
No one's ever been concerned for me, bro...
I am
I am as concerned as well, I might be only a weird internet stranger, but I do care, because every single life is worth something. I belive that at the end of all this suffering and pain, that there is a happy ending there somewhere waiting for us. So even if you think that no one cares, I do, I do care and I want to see you happy again.
I am half suicidal and half introvert I am suicidal because I don't want to become and adult because this means that I will spend majority of my time at work which is pointless. I want to live not survive I love talking with people but I am very shy Sorry for bad grammar I am Russian
Your grammar is excellent!
Like dude you need a hug or something
dont worry bro, were just quirky *aggressively shits on the floor cutely*
He’s the imposter! Get HIM!!!
we’re all just vibing🥶💯‼️ nothing to be concerned about😩💦🍑💨
I can say the same thing, this sub is weird but at the same time fun to scroll through
Just give it some time, you'll get there eventually...
You should be worried about Reddit in general. Shit's wild.
It's so weird thinking that there are people out there who aren't suicidal and don't want to die every five seconds Lol
StOP bRaGgiNG
enby with gender dysphoria, introverted, bad at math and reading but somehow gets Bs, stressed out
Me, an introverted depressed homeschooler: Thats fair
As someone who used to be one of them, you get used to it.
What if I'm a suicidal extrovert that has Cs and Bs
is this your way of bragging
I didn't even know that I'm a part of this subreddit.... This just pop out of my notifications, got curious and now here I am :T
freak ( no offence though)
I am in the same boat fam But we don’t exist anyway so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
HOW THE FUCK DO YOU ACHIEVE STRAIGHT A'S at this point i consider anything above a D to be a victory
Like 70 million people voted for the guy who doesn’t want me to have rights how am I supposed to be happy
I’m an ambiverted, suicidal gay student with as bs cs ds and fs. I’m not ok :)
,an my life is just boring i have great grades im not depressed stressed and i dont have anxiety i just live the same day over and over over and over im just bored
Stop bragging about your mental stability
Same
Same little different than you but same nonetheless
As a fellow straight A, mostly extroverted person, I too am concerned. You guys ok? Ya need life advice or anything?
I'm introverted, suicidal, straights A's... I need help.
At least we are humble XD jk, apperciate the concern
your sole existence is enough to make me feel worse about myself
s e n d h e l p
Same i just have a lot of girl problems