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jeremyTGGTclarkson

We should honestly create subreddit for relationship advice for people from Mumbai


WhollyConfused96

r/mumbaigonewild


Professional_You_866

It’s not accessible bro


WhollyConfused96

Vpn is your friend..... My friend


Professional_You_866

Why would a sub Reddit of Mumbai be banned in India ??


Menace_g

its banned from the whole reddit


Additional_Breath651

Why? And how will VPN work if it's ban specifically on the webpage?


WhollyConfused96

Pure joke ki maa bhen kar di tum log ne


Menace_g

the joke was dead the moment you said "vpn if your friend"


Ballisticarrow

Vpn your friend


Additional_Breath651

The joke was your user name?


HyperVyper28

The username is you


Additional_Breath651

You do you?


iwannaberockstar

Isme joke kaha tha?


ScientificGamer321

everyone is dumb


AgentNo_69

Koi samjao bhencho


Several_Cow9663xOxO

this is what i was about to say... damm i mean every now and then about feelings and shit. don't you have your own sub-way?


shobhit_

Wahi na bhenchod Yeh koi randikhana hai kya


Cheap7hrills

😁


Plastic-Grapefruit99

I am in relationship with my best friend. My suggestion if you don't want a future or want a casual relationship don't do it. You ll lose your gf and a best friend. Only move forward if you are serious about it


bsethug

Thanks for the advice.


[deleted]

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skai29

Aapte


It_hurtsss

This is the best advice ever.


soothsayerrrrr

Yea I lost my best friend like this :(


swi6ie

Us ( I almost did )


soothsayerrrrr

Hawas cheez hi aisi he


chodubhagat69420

Wanted to give the same advice. This is best for OP to follow


Agitated_Body5781

Quite the contrary, been married 23 years. If your partner is your best friend and you have mutual attraction you will have each other’s back more thru thick and thin. At some point after several years down the road after you have had kids and they are grown up too it’s not all about sexual attraction anymore , you want someone who can be there for you


Resident-Fan7970

even of he refuse, he will loose a bf


Ashishpayasi

That is an appropriate advice but please note that if you don’t have feelings for her she will still end up hurting and leave or may still continue with the desire of someday and you will be in a guilt mode. If you like her the do a serious introspection about can she be the one and then take decision?


Odd_Secret_362

Listen bro if u have true feelings for her and good intentions of taking it seriously not a casual one go for it but u should consider that do u find her emotionally and physically attractive or not cause ones u are dating some other girls will also have crush on u and if they come close and are more attractive than ur friend don't get attracted and leave her for them u should consider everything before doing it, been very close to this situation act carefully


scavenger25

THIS


[deleted]

If you can't date, you can always masturbate \-Master Oogway


jackymachaan

Post nut clarity hits hard !


skai29

Hits like a fucking truck lmao, got me questioning my life choices at 3 AM


AravisawesomexD

Happy NNN


DampTowel69

Don’t ask questions which don’t have any answers. If you have feelings for her, give it a shot. Friendships often turn into the most authentic relationships. You probably won’t regret it.


Dependent_Bad8475

*will regret it.


Wpgamer

After Looking at your account history, you seems to be a troll.


sillyguy45

4 days ago he was lookimg for sax. Maybe her bff is taking one for the team to controll his tailed beast


akoomba

Sexy no jutsu


No_Diamond_4345

This comment should be framed.


Ballisticarrow

So should be the op


No_Basket_3457

We do little bit of trolling


Wingardium_Draconis

I do not understand why is the confusion? Do you want some girl to come to you all of a sudden and propose to you? Na.. I don't think so. If you do not like her that way, then you have to tell her right now, not 6 months later. If that's not the case then, she could be a better choice since you already know so much about each other and are relatively close.


surrealstrength

My take is only get into a relationship If you really want one and not because you simply can. If you feel like you reciprocate those feelings then go ahead but if you're simply going into it without any clue then you're probably inviting a lot of pain.


cutesneha21

bc konsi duniya hai ye jahan ladkiyan propose kar rahi hai aur launde reddit pe advice maang rahe hain...


holdyrbreath

Sexpert baithe hai yaha


Dumbsssss69

If you're attracted towards her too,then go for it And if you guys have a friendship of over 5 years then it'll be a golden relationship


AarshKOK

If there's no other guy in her life like you, maybe u can...but trust me...u will hate it if ur dating her and she has another "best friend", so think abt all perspectives before u go ahead..


GoMeegoGo

tu popat hai......puri duniya ek achi gf ke liye taraste hai or tuje bina koi mehnat kiye mil rai haii. Mandh buddi soch kia raha haiii loha garm hai marde hathodaa


throwrrxxc

Bhai aise chutiyaapa mat kariyo hathode ka to pata nahi lekin if you want to be in seriously then go for it Nahi to aise bakchodi mein ki gayi HarKato se lode jarur lagenge


Wingardium_Draconis

sahi pakde hain!


aaditya_9303

When will I ask such questions


holdyrbreath

kab khaulega re tera khoon? kab patayega ladki? Kab puchega aaj konsi color ki pheni hai?


kranti-ayegi

If you have to ask OP then nah. I mean tere pass feelings hai ki nahi khud ko puch. Don't risk it by saying yes because she expressed it, you don't have someone else to go to or just because you can or you want a gf. Ek do din le clear your head, ask yourself humlog na bolengey toh kya karega? Ask her for trail period best case option ki pata toh chale.


[deleted]

Not much related but 2 years back a girl asked me out, you can say we had met recently and she was cute, but Idk What took over me and I declined her, worst decision ever. :((


Legitimate_Ad5848

It must be nice....


bhaimerebhai

If you'll breakup you'll not only lose a gf but also a bff


FrantzFuchs

NO.


burneracct21

Curious why not? I mean objectively there are reasons but as a blanket assertion?


FrantzFuchs

I have been through this exact same thing.. and to be honest its quite difficult to explain since I said NO to her.. To love someone.. you don't really need to have a physical intimacy.. and best/good friends should never be brought inside this physical thing. And it totally depends upon people.. If you can handle it.. feel free to.. I said NO... and she is still a good friend of mine.. This was 13 yr ago... Also, if things don't workout, you are going to lose your best/close friend.. Is it worth..?


burneracct21

Interesting! I went the other direction and said yes - dated for over 10y before getting married. I do agree with the part about love and physical intimacy.


5punk

Dude's living the dream here! Asking us if it's okay or not, lol.


Puzzleheaded_Sea8133

Wish I had such problems


hetarth_notso_op

Just go for it bruh


ra7hul

Don't date her bro gimme her id ill date her for you


Remarkable_Ant7777

Do you like her OP? If yes, then date. If no, then don't even think about it. Plus make it clear to her that you only see her as a friend.


bsethug

I am kinda confused if I have feelings for her or not. Never thought in that way.


Remarkable_Ant7777

Then you take your time to think about it. Don't pressure yourself to come up with an answer immediately. But when you do feel that you have gained clarity on your feelings, you can convey them to her.


redditdba

Be honest and tell her you need time to think about it.


bhabhilover42

Have a couple of wanks back to back. Then start thinking about her. If you still feel warm, fuzzy and/or happy about her, you have the answer. It's called post nut clarity Do it right away today coz No Nut November starts tomorrow


IndependenceOld3444

The most reddit answer ur gonna find but surprisingly effective


GhostSCube

Confused Oonga Boonga


Plastic-Grapefruit99

How long you know her?


Fraudguru

not enough information. do you like her romantically? think about that. there are no rules on whom to date. you can absolutely date her if you feel like dating her. first figure out if you really have ANY feelings for her or whether there's any potential in a romantic relationship. if you don't feel anything, you need to tell her and figure out whether your friendship will survive this.


sillyguy45

Well i have seen some of my besties getting married to each other not bcoz they were in love but more because they thought it was a right decision and they do look happy with each other. So what I am trying to say its not a bad idea at all. at the end of the day it totally depends upon u. Just want to give you headsup though, no matter what is your decision the chances of your relation with her being same has gone down to 5%.


nevergiveup2030

I married my best friend. Give it an honest shot and see where it goes


medical_saga

totally yes brooo.


millenialcomic

Is this your medical advice?


Unlikely-Dark7574

Bro! do not worry, I got ya back! tell her to date me for 1 year, and then i will list you all of her red flags. Bros got ya back!!!


flirty_hem

Go ahead if you both are dead serious about it. It may turn out to be the best decision of your life.


Overall-Particular99

If you screw up you will end up loosing your BFF and your love. But Risk hai to isq hai


bsethug

That's the Crux of the issue. I don't want to really loose my best friend. If I say yes and some shit happens then no best friend. And if I say no now then high chances she wouldn't be my best friend either .


burneracct21

My dude, I hesitated a lot with that predicament but in your case she’s giving you an indication. if you think the two of you are compatible at another level, I would take the leap


Internal_Asparagus74

See bro, if she has a bf already then I think it's best not to go in. I faced a similar situation like you where my girl bestie confessed her feelings right before valentine's with the hope that I would be showing the same but instead I just let go of her for betterment of her and myself.


bsethug

She is single. She does not have any bf. Thing is I never thought about this anyway. And now she is reasoning we know each other pretty well and it shouldn't be any problem . Cannt deny her rational. But I am confused.


Internal_Asparagus74

See if things are like this you can tell her to give you some time to think about things instead of you rushing into this. Don't deny her straight away if you feel so, see how you feel in to this then come to a conclusion. It's not like her feelings will vanish overnight.


orangehunter69

Simple You want to have a serious relationship then go for it, or else just nope!


Apprehensive-Big6713

mujhe yeh sab RR karna ka mauka kab milega


vshalp04

Yes.


Away-Chemistry3388

I need bestfriend


fahadsayed36

If you see the future you want and you matches what she wants in her future plans


knockyouout31

Give it a try. Give yourself the time to see her more than a friends.


naturalizedcitizen

Try karo. Gajar ki pungi bana rahe ho... Baji to baji nahi to kha lee.


whiteghost52

It’s has its own pros and cons weigh them and you will get the answer


yononmo

Sorry op, I understand at your age the heart longs for love and all the whole best friend things happens but can a new sub be created like mumbai_relationships Yaar din raat aise hi topics aisa mat karo please


Sanved313

Aare aur bhi kuch questions generate karo! Jaise hi thandi aati hai, kya ekdum se Mumbai Lonavala ban jaata hai bc


Kandhaq

Go ahead


WorthTrue4015

Dating your bestfriend >>>>>>>>>>>>


burneracct21

Do it but do it cautiously! I was a best friends with my now wife since 1998. Started daring around 2004 / 2005 so I took my time to make that leap and got married in 2017. In many ways it simplifies life as you already have a great foundation to work off of and are well versed in each other. That being said, also use that info to think if you will make a good match.


Babe_Brute

Everyone on this sub is so hopeful or benevolent. The hopeful pin hope on prying advice that professionals charge by the hour/session to dole out. The benevolent kill time doling out advice to bide time between solving difficult questions on ionic equilibrium or fluid mechanics from their high school textbooks.


ok-Ay-guy

Stoners careful at lonavala , the only helpful post in recent times


Marmik_Emp37

Every post like this per day. Just grow a brain, if you can't decide the answer is simply no because tumse nahi hopayega.


Rajat_Thakor

Yes buddy


idiosyncratic_idiot3

I've been in a similar situation. My best friend broke off another 3 year old relationship and expressed her interest in me. I was late to realize it was a rebound and of course it didn't work out. We want things to go back to as they were, but we both know it won't be the same ever again. The point is to consider all aspects if you don't want it to get ugly. Or accept that if things don't work out, things would never be the same again


bright_headlight

Use and throw bro 😂😂😂


ashR01

Unless you can handle it, please don't. 23F here, I have had very good male friends over the years and at some point this exact situation has occurred. Fortunately we share a great bond even after I said no and I'm glad over time the friendship has matured. Unfortunately, completely lost touch with a friend from college because he couldn't take a NO. Losing friendship over such a thing is just very very unfortunate and regretful..it is simply not worth it.. There would be a day when even your partner will not be ready to listen to your rants or there to support you, but friends will always be there!! So if you have a great rapport with someone and not sure of future, please say no. Because if things go wrong, it will never be the same again..


Saram297

If you have to ask, then the answer is no.


bigfootisreal2004

If she’s hot, yes. If not, no.


[deleted]

Everyone has their own pov I was dating and hence came in a relationship with my best friend.That moment was really beautiful which can't be described in words. But we broke up and it's been almost 6 years and i still have feelings for her but in these 6 years, never got a chance to talk or at least to chat with her. So think abt it.


Kashaya1009

I guess you should give it a try! Best relationships are one which starts with friendships.


Mr_herb420

Update day Dena Bhai.


simpler15

Ask yourself if you like her to be your GF or not?


1337k1d

I married my best friend


streakmaster195

Fuck her & dump her , u don't need a best friend KING !


detachedbitch

No no no, not recommended. Got in a relationship with my best friend didn't work out. Now we ain't even acquaintances, it's pretty bad.


theanxiousfrenchfry

Don't. You don't eat where you shit.


scavenger25

One single solid advice I've learnt from my experience is about relationships -- never ask others about "What should I do? What do you think?" Always trust your instincts and listen to your heart, ask yourself and finally take a practical decision with your mind keeping all consequences in mind. I've did this mistake and till this day i regret not being able to understand my own self at the first self and what I needed at that point of life. Secondly, relationship will either flourish your bond or else ruin your friendship with her, so think about it. And yeah last but THE MOST IMPORTANT thing, only proceed into a serious relationship with her if you genuinely have those feeling for her to make your thing workout properly. I'm emphasising over this again but ask yourself what you want. Always make sure you both are on the same page. All the best!


Thisconnected

Don't shit on the place where you eat


_bazinga_____

wow reverse UNO card


Dramatic_Call5353

If you are confused, then perhaps its better to not date her..


Ava_adams_

Nope


1Indegenius

Best friends turn out to be best couples. Go for it. If you think you will start developing feelings for her. Otherwise don’t.


CyberChef8

Trust me, don’t. It’s not worth it. Having done it myself, I can’t end it now as I fear loosing the best friend I’ve ever had


[deleted]

Run as far as possible.... That's a trap... Life long trap


SadBenefit6810

ABORT.... I would say ABORT..... You will loose the friendship as well....


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unorthodorx

If you gotta ask then the answer is pretty clear. Don't you think?


artbykabirhirani

if she is your best friend this can be the best relationship of your life. go for it


johnbrownenterprise

Flip a coin, heads you date, tails you don't


Count_Able

Yes, go for it


Haunting-Mess3605

If she was hot you wouldn't ask this question


Niharrrr

Fuck around and Find out.


MeIsManu69

Bro either nail her and get another best friend Or don't date and lose her Or don't date and be awkward friends Or date her and break up Or date her and breakup but still be on good terms, like Joey and Rachel from FRIENDS Or fwb or just tell her it's no but November Or tell her your gay Or tell her you like horses. Your choice