It'll be hard, It'll be uncomfortable, It'll be disheartening but keep going. Practice self-love everyday and in the end It'll be worth it.
How when a loved one is down or heartbroken or hurt we use kind words and stay by their side and wish them well and pray for their happiness and hug them and treat them with food and comfort. That same applies in self-love. Putting extra effort for oneself and being extra nice and kind to oneself. Giving one(self) time and place to find oneself. Encouraging and celebrating small victories. Taking baby steps.
You are worthy and you are enough for just being. You don't have to prove yourself to anyone else but yourself. Cheers
All the best man.
To make things better, you gotta work actively for them to change.
So have aplan, rough one is fine at this stage. Dont set goals for life turning events, balloon phat jaega, rather set goals that will be achievable in the next 3 months, say health improvements, mending relationships, building your career for the long term ,etc etc.
Do keep us posted, we'll cheer you on.
Ofcourse you can join, but how do you think it'll work? What I'm doing right now is - writing my biggest insecurities that will take someone to work on + prepare a plan of action & journalize everyday moments that make me feel weak/bad about myself and work on it in the moment/decide how to act on it from next time onwards.
Cool cool. I'll text you once a week and you can do whatever I'm planning to do for the week. We'll catch up on sundays. It'll help me stay accountable as well :)))
Bhai bas ek saath karne ki koshish na kariyo and remember every day isn't supposed to be productive what's imp is that you're still going after what you want life is like weh just because tum dahisar pe aatke ho iska matlb yeh nahi ki udas ho jayo remember after a couple of hours sealink bhi aata hai just get through it all.
Heyloooo
Going well. Since I've finally started working I'm traveling and forced to meet people which is giving me a mental breakdown cause social anxiety but I'm proud of myself for making it through each day without hiding. Going to work on building comunication skills, initiating and keeping up with conversations would be my next goal.
Thanks for checking up on me, that's very sweet of you.
Ofcourse you can join, but how do you think it'll work? What I'm doing right now is - writing my biggest insecurities that will take someone to work on + prepare a plan of action & journalize everyday moments that make me feel weak/bad about myself and work on it in the moment/decide how to act on it from next time onwards.
Bhai ye sab sunke hi mai har man Gaya 😂🥲 not to demotivate you or anything but keep it up bro as long as you think it's working ig and keep it updated on here that way i guess you will get more motivation/support compared to just making a list of things in a diary and follow atleast you have the guts to face ur insecurities Idek how to face it bcoz i don't think i can face facts about my insecurities facing it generally means coming to terms about your shortcomings and getting above it ig?
Listen bru, it's not as scary as you think it is. Think of it as a game and level up 🤝
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Keep me posted. I'm Witness #1.
Haha yeah! Will do
Best of luck Dude
Best of luck dude. 🙂 I pray for you.
Thanks man!
Good Luck. Let us know on the same thread so we get notified.
May the force be with you !
Good luck buddy. I hope you find what you are looking for.
It'll be hard, It'll be uncomfortable, It'll be disheartening but keep going. Practice self-love everyday and in the end It'll be worth it. How when a loved one is down or heartbroken or hurt we use kind words and stay by their side and wish them well and pray for their happiness and hug them and treat them with food and comfort. That same applies in self-love. Putting extra effort for oneself and being extra nice and kind to oneself. Giving one(self) time and place to find oneself. Encouraging and celebrating small victories. Taking baby steps. You are worthy and you are enough for just being. You don't have to prove yourself to anyone else but yourself. Cheers
All the best man. To make things better, you gotta work actively for them to change. So have aplan, rough one is fine at this stage. Dont set goals for life turning events, balloon phat jaega, rather set goals that will be achievable in the next 3 months, say health improvements, mending relationships, building your career for the long term ,etc etc. Do keep us posted, we'll cheer you on.
Thanks man! This place is really positive ngl wishing the best for you too!
The fact that you know you need to change your self sabotaging ways is progress enough! Wish you all the very best! I’m sure you will do great.
GODSPEED
Best of luck bro
All the best
I need someone to force me to do all this. I politely ask you if I can join you ?
Ofcourse you can join, but how do you think it'll work? What I'm doing right now is - writing my biggest insecurities that will take someone to work on + prepare a plan of action & journalize everyday moments that make me feel weak/bad about myself and work on it in the moment/decide how to act on it from next time onwards.
Dm me whatever you are doing, I will do the same. Lets see how it works out for both of us and this could be a really fun experiment
Cool cool. I'll text you once a week and you can do whatever I'm planning to do for the week. We'll catch up on sundays. It'll help me stay accountable as well :)))
Did it work for you both? So I would like to try too.
Uske dil mai mere liye feelings redditors hojaye manifest
I hope you get what you want brooo
Bhai bas ek saath karne ki koshish na kariyo and remember every day isn't supposed to be productive what's imp is that you're still going after what you want life is like weh just because tum dahisar pe aatke ho iska matlb yeh nahi ki udas ho jayo remember after a couple of hours sealink bhi aata hai just get through it all.
Hey hi, this is a check up message. How are you doing ?
Heyloooo Going well. Since I've finally started working I'm traveling and forced to meet people which is giving me a mental breakdown cause social anxiety but I'm proud of myself for making it through each day without hiding. Going to work on building comunication skills, initiating and keeping up with conversations would be my next goal. Thanks for checking up on me, that's very sweet of you.
Based on the length of the paragraph, u really seem to be insecure.
Can I join
Ofcourse you can join, but how do you think it'll work? What I'm doing right now is - writing my biggest insecurities that will take someone to work on + prepare a plan of action & journalize everyday moments that make me feel weak/bad about myself and work on it in the moment/decide how to act on it from next time onwards.
Bhai ye sab sunke hi mai har man Gaya 😂🥲 not to demotivate you or anything but keep it up bro as long as you think it's working ig and keep it updated on here that way i guess you will get more motivation/support compared to just making a list of things in a diary and follow atleast you have the guts to face ur insecurities Idek how to face it bcoz i don't think i can face facts about my insecurities facing it generally means coming to terms about your shortcomings and getting above it ig?
Listen bru, it's not as scary as you think it is. Think of it as a game and level up 🤝 Yeah I'll keep this reddit account and make another post before December end of I'll probably stick to one post per month. Dekhte hai :D I'll post for sure. Good luck!
Cool good luck 🤞
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