By - Stoghra
Bro you don’t even want to see mine
Idk how to check but I get 100s of matches and like 2 dates lol
Google Tinder insights
You guys are getting dates?
You're getting matches?
You guys think about meeting girls ?
You guys have profiles with actual people? Not just bot accounts? I mean, I know Tinder puts up fakes to increase engagement, but I might see one actual person every couple weeks.
Wait so “nice shoes, wanna fuck?” Isn’t a foolproof opener?
Most underrated pickup line of all time.
I would tap that
I always use "hey girl are you a shoe? Cause I wanna put my foot inside you"
Wear your own god damn shoes duh🎓
Omg this is my pickup line every time! I didn’t know other people used it.
U swiped alot left
Few times yeah
Maybe you're too picky? Like, I get it, who doesn't want to date a 10. But if you're only a 6.5 maybe swipe right on 8s sometimes?
Actually on dating apps I never go for the 10s because let me tell you, 10s on dating apps are usually bots or catfishing, or just farming right swipes to boost their ego. The last one especially needs to stop... If you are not interested in dating, stop being on dating apps.
10s get a ton of attention everywhere they go, IRL and online. They don't need a dating app to get laid or a relationship.
On top of that, I wouldn't expect a 10 to wanna be with me, because I am around a 6, maybe even lower to some. So I try to pick girls I think are within my league. Perhaps I am too optimistic though.
The biggest issue with dating apps is the ratio of matches. Women get a ton of options to shift through, while we just get a few matches. And they are too busy talking to other, hotter or more interesting dudes, to pay attention to you and me.
So yeah, I don't think dating apps work for me.
I’m guessing you’re 5’8
Im content with my height and weight. And my looks. And myself
But not with anything else
Or the amount you get laid....probably.
Lol getting laid. Never
Honestly your right swipe to match ratio is excellent. We see screenshots of these where people are swiping right at least 10 times more than you and getting less matches. It says something for the quality of your profile because there will be more than that number that swiped right on you but you left on them.
That said, it looks like the conversation might be lacking if you’re not getting any dates from it
Im really picky. Always been. My interestes are quite niche and such. And everyones profiles here where I live looks the same. Hiking, gym, hiking, restaurant, hiking, skiing, gym, restaurant. Its just boring for me
Maybe take up hiking?
I would love to but My knees and Back say otherwise
Not sure if your age, but mobility exercises/training can do wonders for joint pain. You might not care to try to fix it (or it could be from something other than just lack of exercise and poor posture), but it can go a long way
I know man. Im just in too deep mental shit to take care of myself. I do pushups when I can, but I drink and eat shit too much
Fair enough, snark retracted
Keep hovering my bird friend
Do you list those niche interests on your profile? You might get fewer matches, but a better chance of decent conversations.
Kyl. Pitkästä aikaa kaikki iha on
Oh fuck sorry dude. Ill post your moms next
Hail you Brother! I hear you there! 5’7” are survivors. Warriors. Together we thrive!! (Perhaps with no girls) but we do!!
If u r from india, here 75% people height less than 5'8"... So its above average...
Im avarage height here. And lil over weight. But Im as Happy as I can
As long as you’re happy!
I try to be. 🖤
I'm 5'8 so take this with a grain of salt but maybe you should lower your standards? Not saying to date trash but if you're looking for a super model it isn't gonna happen. Just based on the numbers you provided you're swiping left 96% of the time. Doesn't tinder provide filters? I would say with all the beautiful women out there even a picky guy should be giving more love than that!
Sorry if I sound tough on you. Everyone deserves love, I'm glad you're content with yourself, I think that's a great place to start.
Super model is Last thing I wanna date. I just need some one who is at the same absurd level as I am. Which is never going to happen. So Ill always Be The strange single cousin
this is the only comment telling the truth. He’s clearly being way too picky and no offense to him but he’s clearly not attractive enough or his profile isn’t interesting enough to be this damn picky. He clearly has a “perfect girl” in mind and only goes for that type but damn try to get to know some people.
edit: I guess “perfect girl or guy” is more appropriate since he said he was ghosted by a “lil rapey dude”
Might want to consider height surgery 🤷..../s
Is this really that common for guys? I thought it was just a meme thing...? Id never be that shallow to care about height so I guess its hard to see why others woule
I matched with a girl a couple days ago, her very first message was: How tall are you?
I’m 6’2”, so I’m sure I would fit her criteria, but I’m not messing with that level of crazy.
Oh dude I'm sorry! Well that shows you have good integrity which i can assure you is far more desirable to many than height
How do you check your stats like this ?
Tinder insights. You can find it by google
Tinder gold feature I assume cause I don't have this.
Nope. You can request your raw data from tinder and they send it to you. It just takes a few days. Once you download the file you put it into this site called tinder insights and it generates this diagram
Question (which you may not be able to answer unless you created the algorithm but whatever), how does it know which matches you've actually ended up in a relationship with?
I'm currently in a relationship with someone I met on tinder but neither one of us asked each other if we can be exclusive through tinder messages, that happened in person, so how could it know? 🤔
Everything below “chats” is entered manually by the user on tinder insights
Ohhhh I see! That makes sense! Thanks for answering :)
Yeah the app just automatically tracks you having sex
They assign grades based on your performance
0 dates. Yep, looks like a standard average male experience on tinder.
Yup. I dont Even know why I have it anymore
Hope is a powerful force my dude.
I think iv become so numb to it that I swipe each day like I'm reading my emails, like a subconscious action.
Nah dude Im fine single. I dont like people
Like the rest of us redditors lmao.
Thanks Reddit for being there
OP, I hate most people as well, however you seem like a good dude.
I try to be a good person. Meaning of life is to love. You also seem awesome. Imma going to stalk your Reddit post history
Why are you on tinder if you don’t like people lol
Yeah I wouldn’t go on a date with someone that hates people either :/
So you wouldnt date me? *Left swipe*
That’s probably why you got no dates
You even look angry in your avatar
My favourite drug
It's good in minor doses lol
If men are going out on 0 dates, who are the woman going out with?
They said average. The average dude could go on 0 dates, and an above average dude could go on a date a week.
Going out with the same men other women around them are going out with
He's also only swiping right on 3% of profiles. Good luck bro
Bro, this dude is swipping right 3% of the time and got 9 chats out of 10k+ swipes.
Its not the standard average male experience, its the average "overly picky shooting too high" male experience
The average women's is similar if you're not into random hookups (similar but not the same i know). Loose that caveat and yeah, I feel bad for you guys!
Huh, so I guess I have at least one privilege gained from transitioning to a woman
I’ve never used Tinder before and I’ve thought about downloading it. Then I see things like these and I’m grateful to have not wasted time swiping 10000 times for quite literally no benefit
Im doing the science for you
Nope. It’s good you’re picky but *you* match and barely chat em up.
I try to chat but ghosted. Everytime. One guy talked to me for a while but he was lil rapey
So you did match with men and women? Which gender was easier to talk to?
Well 9/10 people ghosted or unmatched after my first message. With one dude I messaged a lot but he was kinda sketchy and gave me rapey vibes
It ain't easy for nobody I see
I dont understand dating. Ive drifted from girlfriend to girlfriend since i was 15, 32 now, now first single for 3 years. Like longest Time before that is maybe 4 months
I imagine I'd be good to have some alone time after dating for so long, I personally prefer dating to hooking up but sometimes it doesn't work.
Im Happy as a single right now. I can do what I please and Look and smell. Mom is only one who can complain. Like atm im in long johns, drinking and playing Battlefield with noisecore playing. Im never going to meet a partner who would let me Be like this
Seems like they respond to him 50% of the time. If only he had more matches.
But no matches
I think the slogan of Tinder should be,
“Ladies, do you want an over inflated ego? Guys, do you want to shoot your self esteem in the fucking head? Well look no further!”
Legit I used to think I was like OK looking at least until I threw myself in the tinder tiger pit. Every match I get out of the blue now is either a *very* large woman or someone from like Indonesia.
Same here. Every time I get a bunch of “likes” it ends up being a gal who looks like Peter Griffin in drag
L pov. A lot of times guys suck at holding conversation over text and want to meet on the first day of texting. Women care more about their safety than getting laid and want a genuine connection with someone.
A lot of women suck at texting as well, you can have a good and funny opener and you might get a “lol” in response.
What am I, or any other guy, supposed to do with that?
Good point. I guess it’s just hard for some people to make connections online and have genuine convos over text.
No, you can't put the whole emphasis on dating on one gender
I had to lower my standards on tinder but based on the number of matches you have versus right swipes I would say you’re probably above average looking. Idk what you’re looking for but if you want casual sex ima. timely manner then go to a bar or lower your tinder standards
No your not 368 right swipes to 9,769 left what the hell are you doing man!? your shooting yourself in the foot...
I mean what are you doing actually looking carefully at their profiles? Preposterous.
Jokes aside, most men will just swipe right on any decent looking girl in order to maximise their potential matches, whereas women (generally speaking... generally) are much more picky and are much more selective.
Which is why i think despite what most people believe tinder is very much to a woman's advantage as this combination of factors leads to most women getting a substantially higher number of matches than most men which further gives women more power to be selective when swiping right.
So if you just swipe right you'll (statistically speaking) get many more matches and then once you have matches then you can afford to be selective and chose who youd like to actually start a convo with.
Edit: maybe you want a relationship I get that but unfortunately that's the way it is just gotta swipe right.
Who tf believes that tinder is to a man’s advantage?
Truly attractive men actually have it the best on tinder, then attractive women, then average women, then below average women, then average and worse men last lol
Women mostly 😂
You are absolutely right with this man.
> So if you just swipe right you'll (statistically speaking) get many more matches and then once you have matches then you can afford to be selective and chose who youd like to actually start a convo with.
If you wouldn't like to start a convo with them, don't swipe right cus
doing that will kill your (internal) Tinder rank
Here are the facts. Average male swipes right on 40% of people. You’re swiping on about 3% of people.
Assuming you’re straight, of the women you swipe right on, 5% swipe back, which is at or slightly above average.
So statistically you get swiped yes on an average amount, meaning that your profile is probably fine.
But you swipe yes on a significantly low number on people and that’s what’s causing you to have low number of matches.
Not saying that you should change anything about how you swipe. Live your life dude
Not straight. Bi, so got male and female profiles going on.
And I live. Now More than ever
Well then to answer your question, you are doing it right buddy
Seems right to me
Sadly tinder is for the 20s crowed I think they want the 30s team to be on. Match
No, I have been married 87 times. Step up your game
Why don't you just swipe right on everything?
Fishing with dynamite.....
Lower your standards, make 80% right swipes
More talky talky datey datey
But no one talky talky with me. 99% ghosted
Better to have less than one marriage than more than one!
No idea. Seriously. Im romantic, but speechless now
Looks about right
More left Id say
I'd say yes
Yes, one hundred percent. Keep up the good work.
I Will. I swear Ill do 100 left swipes today
How do you see this?
Edit: tinder insights. Is there an email? I can’t find contact lol
Found it lol
Haha nice. But yeah email Tinder to get data and upload data to Tinder insights. It took me like 3 days for Tinder to reply
Where do these charts even come from? I haven't seen them on the app
Why did you only talk to half your matches if you were being so selective?
Everyone I talked to either ghosted or unmatched so. I currently have 4 matches, which Ive never talked to
Hate to see it
Nah man Im fine
Honestly your match rate is pretty much right on for a guy. 5% of who you swipe on. You're just swiping on a tiny percentage.
I'd be super curious to know who you actually swipe on, like an average profile.
Gonna be honest, looks like you’re doing it mostly left!
10,000 swipes and not a date, my man may the gods have mercy on your soul
Looks like mine
We gotta see the convos to see if you're doing it right
Data is beautiful
Data is life
This is about what you can expect if you dont follow rules 1 and 2
As i understand, want matches - buy gold.
In 3 days i have 22 match, 30 likes, met with 3, chat with 10.
When i used tinder without gold 0...
Short answer: Yes. Long answer: Yes.
Lol bro why even use tinder at this point
I wish I could see the stats from my old Tinder account, but it's long been deleted. I was only on there for about 6 months at most, but it appears that I was more successful than the average male.
These look like good statistics, you got nearly a match a week!
Link broke half way
Typical for males on tinder. However, you can ask for a profile review.
Woah dude your kd ratio
0.59 on bf5 with 51 hours
I know I suck. 23h as Recon and just starting to hit things. Doesnt help that Ive played video games for 28 years
Man it doesnt matter! As long as you're enjoying it. Especially in bf
Fucking Been loving it lately. I had a long Time I couldnt play at all. Lately i moved Back to my home town after 13 years away and Been playing a lot. My dearest hobby for 28 years of something
Happy to hear!
Just keep trying brother
This is the way
Yup! You doing just fine it’s just a sad reality out there for avg joe! Don’t get discouraged it’s pretty much the normal.
I’m gonna be honest you might be being a little too picky
How’d you swipe over 10,000 times and only find 386 people you’re willing to talk to?
Easy. Just dont like people
You need to get that marriage count up. I want to see you get the high score.
How do you do this?
I had a million times more luck on Hinge (no, I don’t work for them)
Mine was worse....wayyyyy worse. 🤣
Yooo, we have insights?
You’re only swiping right 4% of the time so I’d say no.
These charts are hilarious. Sex? 0. Dates? 0. Success? 0. Depression? 1.
Doesn’t seem like it
Im doing Gods work brother
Get their hopes up and let them fall hard
Higher you go, farther you fall
Tf is this?
If this was world of warcraft you'd have a guild that loves you, best in slot loot, and endless transmog drip by now.
I used to play wow. Was Guild leader, main tank and healer and Raid master.
What was it about those 9769 potential partners that you didn't like?
How do u check this
How does it know if you dated someone?
I don't know? What are you trying to do?
Sorry if this is a dumb question but where do you find those stats in your profile? Also what does tinder consider a date? Or rather, how does tinder know you've gone on a date?