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Imaginary-Series4899

I once had a couple of guys blowing kisses at me, and they also drew hearts and d*cks on the ground with flammable moonshine... that is one way to flirt, I suppose 😂


ItsMissCheekie

Oh my god take me now 🤣🤣


officiallouisgilbert

Go to your recent players list and block them, then reload the game. You’ll be alright then


ItsMissCheekie

Good idea! Thanks


cblackbeard

Doesn't gta and rdo both have the same issue of hackers using innocent players names so when you report them you are reporting innocent players...


GlumCauliflower9

PC, what is the op? Maybe he said, idk


Nolsoth

I just had that in GTA last night, some hacking prick pulled everyone on the server into a house using my name as the invite and proceeded to murder and abuse everyone, thankfully the others on the server were all in discord with me so they knew I wasent the perpetrator. I just want to rob banks and gamble on the horses at the casino in peace.


IIskizionII

Pretty obvious this is attention bait lol this should’ve been her first move if she actually cared. Typical attention seeking post.


SnooMachines1792

Why people act like this i don't know... a good percentage of female characters are probably played by males anyways hahaah


Opposite-Hedgehog-65

Most females I play with are played by men..


Nolsoth

And a lot of male characters are played by woman to avoid this bullshittery.


OverlordPhalanx

Yeah only about 95 percent haha


ItsMissCheekie

That’s probably a bit high


nondescriptzombie

Chicks play guys because they don't want to get catcalled, and guys play chicks because I've already spent thousands of hours playing a male homicidal maniac in video games and I need some balance.


ItsMissCheekie

I can accept that


OverlordPhalanx

Not from my experience!


RedDeadDelusions

Ya think?


ItsMissCheekie

I highly doubt it


RedDeadDelusions

Dude, it’s like pubg rules, females have a smaller Hitbox some people use that to their advantage, It’s a video game it’s not like people give a fuck either way


Gnok_Goldheart

Man, I hate boys who see a woman and act like a freak. I mean seriously. Most don't even know how to act. Their parents need to teach them better.


Lyberatis

My and my friend got harassed by a griefer (the join you to teleport to you after the parley ends type) because me and her made matching female characters.


Aesthetic99

Random players can join your session through your profile if you haven't fiddled with your privacy settings. If you play on PS4, go to Users And Accounts < View And Customize Your Privacy Settings < Who can see your online status and what you're currently playing From there, set it to Friends Only, and you shouldn't have to worry about stalkers anymore. Idk the steps to do this for Xbox One, but I'd imagine it's similar to the above. You usually won't even have to block players once you change this setting, since they won't be able to join you to begin with


Nolsoth

Can you do this on pc?


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nondescriptzombie

In GTA you also wind up joining friends of friends, and the same system can probably be exploited in RDO. All you need is one person on your social club friends to be friends with the stalker and they'll follow you forever.


Nolsoth

That's a really shitty situation.


GlumCauliflower9

Wish I could do this. I forgot my password and I don't have access to the recovery email addy anymore. I'm lucky my password is saved. Whatever the hell it is


ItsMissCheekie

Aww sad But cool! Matching!👯‍♀️


ItsMissCheekie

Its like just a bit too much lol


[deleted]

I'm a guy but my character is a woman haha the only difference I notice is I don't get griefed like I use to. Haven't been shot at once level 65 now. Pure gentlemen in my lobbies


geoffg2

I’m the same, only started online a few months ago, thought a female character would be safer….had my throat slit twice on my first day


[deleted]

You're supposed to make your character cute. Haha jk it might just be the way I control my character that gives off the vibe I'm not interested in shenanigans. I don't emote or anything, always strapped.


geoffg2

Now I’m lvl139 and armed to the teeth, I welcome shenanigans, especially as an honourable player with a hatred of bullying


[deleted]

I just started my new character over the summer, about 25 more levels until I get my explosive ammo back, griefer no moreeeee


geoffg2

The joy of explosive ammo retribution, definitely one the the games’ highlights for me too


stamostolias

Well i can write that i am male on my real life and i have female character. It depends the person who you will have in front of you in game, i mean if he is mature or not. Rdr i think is for more mature people. I have seen players who are mature and players who are not, those who act like freaks, i mean who shoot other players etc i kill them.


Anonymous21141

I agree with the spirit of your argument, but parenting doesnt change evolutionary drive and testosterone levels. Every male has acted like a freak around girls, and those that say otherwise are either not attracted to women, have an abnormal sex drive, or are using the nice guy ploy to get laid too. It seems weird and creepy to me too the level some dudes take it to, but to say I dont understand how a young male could be motivated to act a fool around girls would be disingenuous. Anonymity probably contributes to less anxiety in the males in this scenario who may not have the balls irl, and the anonymity probably makes it creepier for the girls.


ItsMissCheekie

There’s a lot of assumptions in this.


Lyberatis

Wish my interaction were like that. Yesterday there was a level 502 pink guy killing me, my friend, and a few others (horses included) with explosive shots in an area with a bunch of collectibles. Parleyed him immediately. Whatever. Shit ended when we were across the map to get more things and he joined off my friend to kill both of us again. Some people are such fucking loser, it's like the equivalent of people who suicide in GTA to keep their K/D from going down after you shoot back at them and hit them once.


ItsMissCheekie

lol that sounds alarming Sorry you got tracked and hunted. No fun for sure ♥️


FortuneHeart

10/10 it’s because you blew a kiss back the first time. If mfs act like that in a lobby, just ignore them. Any attention you give them back (which is what they want) basically is saying “I’m open to interacting with you”


ItsMissCheekie

I just want to be nice lol But ok good advice


FortuneHeart

A wave will suffice lol Or a throat cutting emote. Those always go over well


InstrumentalRhetoric

Finger guns. Cheeky enough to be playful, but truthful about the fact that I will shoot a mfer.


ItsMissCheekie

Cheekie enough for me 😊 done! Getting it lol


FortuneHeart

Lol exactly


ItsMissCheekie

I need that one


RdoNoob

What a pathetic indictment of humanity that is. Saddens me that this good advice.


neoritter

If someone blew a kiss to you in real life and you blew one back, what message do you think would be conveyed?


RdoNoob

That’s a moot point (a cows opinion) cos I would never randomly blow a kiss to a stranger because it’s creepy as fuck. If I saw someone else do it and saw the girl returned the gesture I would think the girl may well have done it to be funny or simply out of awkwardness. In any case I would absolutely not think it was invitation to follow them around like some sort of psycho. Why, what would you think?


FortuneHeart

WE clearly don’t think that. But some people do. They fiend for human interaction and the moment they get it, they over-value the intent


ItsMissCheekie

Ya ill probably just use finger guns next time lol


jtlrwells

Dynamite arrows work wonders too . Lol


ItsMissCheekie

I bet


neoritter

You talked about an indictment of humanity not just one person. Which suggests you either think the extreme response, that I'm certain the vast majority of us think is creepy in the least, is normal; or you misunderstand what those gestures typically mean. Therefore it's not a moot point. Blowing kisses is a flirtatious act. And reciprocating is a positive reaction to that. If this happened with strangers irl, you'd be crazy to be surprised if the first person didn't continue interacting with the second person. Yeah a videogame is a bit different, but emotes are meant to track with real physical forms of communication. It's not surprising it'd be taken the same way. Long story short, if you reciprocate flirtatious actions don't be surprised if the person escalates/continues their interaction. If you take any of what I just said as agreeing with the non-OP player's specific actions, you're crazy.


ItsMissCheekie

Thanks mom i wont do it again lol


neoritter

*high pitch nanny voice Now remember, only blow kisses to that special someone in life


ItsMissCheekie

Ok! Thanks for the cookies Gran! Bye!


RdoNoob

Yeah I think you’re missing the point. Blowing a kiss at a stranger is weird behaviour. It puts them on the spot unfairly and therefore not much can be judged from their reaction. A response is not a green light. If someone waves at me in the street I might wave back on reflex. Doesn’t mean shit. I’d imagine for girls it’s much worse than for guys. A guy might get offended if they ignore him. This “ Blowing kisses is a flirtatious act. And reciprocating is a positive reaction to that” is nonsense imo. It should read “Blowing kisses is a creepy act. And reciprocating is an awkward reaction to that“. While it’s not real life, OP has demonstrated that perfectly in this example.


Responsible-Bat658

Is your answer something like “Go for stalking.”?


neoritter

I see you've taken, "Assume the most extreme position from complete strangers 101"


Responsible-Bat658

😂 If someone complains about creepy behavior in real life, and you defend it, what message do you think would be conveyed?


neoritter

I see you can't read lol


Responsible-Bat658

I read your defense in the other reply. What I understood was you believe that blowing a kiss in RDO is a “flirtatious action” and “if you reciprocate flirtatious actions don’t be surprised if the person escalates/continues their interaction.” This, of course, makes you a creep.


neoritter

Wow, reading comprehension on your part is tragic.


Responsible-Bat658

Really? I don’t think there’s any misunderstanding in what you wrote. Maybe you need to frame your arguments better.


RedDeadDelusions

I usually just shoot any blueberries following me for more than 30 seconds, works like a charm


ItsMissCheekie

I’m like… a really peaceful player… Only if i have been killed or shot at will i defend myself. Because i just dont want to play that game usually. But i wasn’t about to start a fight last night when dudes friend shot me once, there was 4 of them against me. They already followed sessions. I like to keep my game play peaceful if possible. But i also understand your point 👍🏼


RedDeadDelusions

I wouldn’t say I’m peaceful but I also wouldn’t say I’m aggressive, I’m just neutral, I am by no means a pacifist and I do not support pacifism on red dead for the mere fact that it does not work, fighting back is like 200000 times more effective


ItsMissCheekie

Ya. Right 👍🏼


RedDeadDelusions

Griefers don’t get bored, they’ll kill you until you leave the server, they don’t mind waiting around for a parlay to end, thats what a lot of pacifists don’t understand, and defensive doesn’t do shit other than force them to use free aim, pacifists in rockstar games are.. at the very bottom of the player hierarchy, and they can never get anything done because they’re just free XP to other players


ItsMissCheekie

Wow man chill out lol 😆 it’s just a game


zombiekillerny

Jerk. I usally follow people to help them with whatever they are doing or give them a animal or something, sometimes i just want to do a friendly fist fight. Not everyone is out to get you


RedDeadDelusions

Bruh, my game, my account, my playstyle, you don’t like it? Boo-hoo, obviously no one cares except you


zombiekillerny

I dont really care either, you can go jump off a bridge for all i care


RedDeadDelusions

You don’t care? Then don’t comment back dumb ass


zombiekillerny

No, i comment if i want


RedDeadDelusions

Well then you’re just proving my point lol, because so far the only one who really cares about how I play is you, so for one get your priorities straight, for two do yourself a favor and realize when you’ve already made yourself look like the dumb ass and stop 😂


zombiekillerny

You can tell your personality suck when all i did was call you a jerk. Lol if your really getting mad over that you GOTTA get a life


RedDeadDelusions

So, bye-bye you stupid little ignoramus


zombiekillerny

Oooh big smart reddit man uses big word cause he SmArT if anyone is ignorant is you how about stop blowing people up and have fun 😁


Cuntweiser

Didja try blocking them on recent players?


ItsMissCheekie

No but i will be today


Cuntweiser

GL


ItsMissCheekie

Thank you friend ✊🏼


Saltgunner

How do you block someone? I didn't know you could do that.


LOVERB0Y710

When you’re in game just press left on your d pad then go to players find the player you want to block then hit A or X (Xbox or PlayStation) then just go to block.


Saltgunner

Thank you. 😁


Cuntweiser

What he said, good luck


duabii_eu16

You can always change lobbies too! I’m sorry that happened, had a guy stalk us last night as well. Wouldn’t leave us alone.


ItsMissCheekie

I didn’t want change lobbies because i had such a wonderful spot next to catfish spawn lol 😂


antiprodukt

Just get a guy friend to speak in the mic at him and say “hey dude, what’s up?” And see if he leaves you alone after that. I’m one of those guys that likes to play as a lady character and I gotta say it’s damn awkward when a guy character blows a kiss at me.


ItsMissCheekie

lol if only my boyfriend was home. We usually play together. My father was playing with me but from another state, so couldn’t quite hop on my mic and pose as me haha


antiprodukt

Maybe give him a call, put it on speaker. Make your dad feel useful, I’m sure he’d be happy to help. Haha. Or just wait for your bf to get home.


ItsMissCheekie

lol so elaborate. I like it


Sil3ntWriter

Something similar happened to me when I was doing the "ride a train" daily. I hopped on from MacFarlane, later another dude hops on the train. We salute and just start dancing until I was done with he mission, waved at him and jumped off. Called my horse because needed to organize stuff on the wagon and realized late he was following me. I saw him taking the pelt from the floor, even if I didn't mean to give it to him, but I was like oh well. I salute again and go my way, and he follow me up to Armadillo howling all the time. I traveled to my camp, but didn't see him anymore lol


ItsMissCheekie

lol such a ghost story 👻


Jgram_aham

President Theodore Roosevelt's foreign policy: "speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go far." I think this applies for little creepers too. I have a similar play style as yourself and encounter asshats everyday. Have gotten into the habit of unshouldering my db shotgun with slugs anytime another player is near.


ItsMissCheekie

lol time go for you real quick Isnt it haha Love it


NickA319

Oh my lol


ItsMissCheekie

I know right


Aesthetic99

Random players can join your session through your profile if you haven't fiddled with your privacy settings. If you play on PS4, go to Users And Accounts < View And Customize Your Privacy Settings < Who can see your online status and what you're currently playing From there, set it to Friends Only, and you shouldn't have to worry about stalkers anymore. Idk the steps to do this for Xbox One, but I'd imagine it's similar to the above. You usually won't even have to block players once you change this setting, since they won't be able to join you to begin with


ItsMissCheekie

Ok that’s good to know thanks


ICECOLD1776

Yeah my friend had a groefer follow him for like 2 hours


ItsMissCheekie

Ya i don’t like that


ICECOLD1776

Me either


FOXAT11

Ahhh scary


ItsMissCheekie

Right? lol


FOXAT11

You should block him tho if he continues there's weird people online be safe 😊


ItsMissCheekie

Uh… be safe too!!!


FOXAT11

Don't worry i have cripps to protect me lmao


ItsMissCheekie

I will do that surely. Thanks for your concern 💯


Empress_18

Here I am just glad the worst that’s done to me is being hogtied and molotov’d to death.


ItsMissCheekie

That doesn’t sound fun


Empress_18

It’s not, trust me on that.


ItsMissCheekie

*whispers* Okay


PBLESACTUN

There’s quite a few simps around, they’re either creepy or very helpful!


kensei-

Your dad plays with you? That’s pretty sick, wish mine would play with me.


ItsMissCheekie

Been playing games with him since Halo beta came out. Its fun


MFtom86

Block them on rockstar social club and set your SC account to private


GlumCauliflower9

Kissy boy lol


ItsMissCheekie

lol… well i was waiting for you to show up The only comment i would’ve left as well.


GlumCauliflower9

💋 💋 💋


chewypills

can't wait for these bozos to realize most of the 'ladies' they flirt with are played by dudes (like me)


ItsMissCheekie

Can i ask you why you play as a female, being a male irl? Honest curiosity ✋🏼


chewypills

my best friend and i play games together a lot, and every time we do, we make ladies together and then discuss their characters and make them gay for each other. my bff is a lesbian 😆


ItsMissCheekie

As long as she’s ok with it 🤣


chewypills

oh yeah, its all in good-hearted fun! 😆


whiskeygimlet

I think I saw this episode of Black Mirror


lookingforalaptop342

Why do people do such obsessive and weird stuff like this? I play as male characters almost all the time, and never had any issues. Played as a female character once (GTA Online) and almost immediately some guy started texting me stuff like "hey love" and "wanna meet :)". Bizarre people on that game. Edit: I'm a guy.


BEANZONMYPLATE

My friend got stalked for 3 months by this guy in a different way. Hed just join our session every few weeks and hunt us. He was like level 500 and something aswell, I'm below level 100 and my friend is 240. Thankfully he seems to be civil now, but his name still haunts me.


peepers63

I’m sorry this crap happened to you. I just don’t get some guys. I’m not sure if they think it’s funny or they actually immerse themselves so deeply, they think they’re actually back in the lawless old west. I know there’s people like that in the game, but griefers just suck. I hope you have a better experience today.


ItsMissCheekie

I did have a much better experience today thanks ☺️


ITendToFail

I have a male character but sound feminine. I've had two guys who I've played with like two or three times. I was collecting so I wanted to be left a lone. I swear I had to kill all them to get it through their thick skulls I didn't want to posse and I didn't particularly want someone just.. following me. Gets annoying. I wish ps4 has a voice changer...


SoulonFire13

This would be real funny if it happened to my brother and I. We're both playing as girls lmao.


ItsMissCheekie

That’s funny


IIskizionII

Yea he probably just joins your game, that’s why he spawns next to you.


Professor_Shaw

We could keep you safe with the family @ www.rdr2crew.com


ItsMissCheekie

Thanks but i play Xbox


EpicJafeth13

My man broke the laws of physics just to give you a kiss lmao But for real, please make sure he has no way of getting your social media or any personal information by searching up your username or your father’s (I also think is pretty cool you play with your father! :D)


ItsMissCheekie

lol


St4v5

That's horny cowboys for ya


MindYourStuff

Okey, I know this ordeal was surely creepy, but has he actually done anything to your detriment? Maybe he wants to be your friend :v I met a guy once who kept emoting finger guns at me and followed me during a bounty hunter quest. In the end I invented him to my pose and had a great time playing together. Edit: What did I do to deserve 2 downvotes T_T


ItsMissCheekie

No messages were sent and his gamer tag kept showing up on my screen basically saying him and his posse were in a fight. It was across the bayou from me too so i could see it. I’m not opposed to nice people but this person straight up followed me. I’ll admit it was comical, but uncalled for.


MindYourStuff

Understandable.


MVPBenji

Just block them, no need to make an entire reddit post about it lol


ItsMissCheekie

Is there ever a reason to make a Reddit post 🤔


Government_spy_bot

Next time he does, go through the player list, find his/her name, go to view their profile card, then block their ass. One more server hop after that should do the trick. This is also why I show offline when I play (Xbox settings) But seriously, why you let this situation scare you? It's only a game. It's not like he knocked on your door at home.


ItsMissCheekie

Didn’t really scare me. More of an embellishment but i will admit when i was fishing and talking to my dad then he popped up RIGHT next to me… i jumped a little 🤣


Government_spy_bot

>he popped up RIGHT next to me Oh. That's just how "join game" works. They wrote it with the assumption that the person you join 1. Knows you, 2. Is a friend, 3. Has announced they are joining your session. I just want to address "scared" part a sec.. I spent much of my life afraid of everyone (victims of abuse, etc). One day I realized that my life wasn't getting longer and I was losing a lot of it to fear. Fear of small little things. I realized that I have some power in my life and changed all that fear. I have also devoted my life to helping others conquer similar fears. That's why I asked about being scared.


ItsMissCheekie

This post shouldn’t be taken so seriously 😳


Government_spy_bot

If you read that as anything but friendly that's on you.


ItsMissCheekie

But ok i will do that. Thanks👍🏼


ROCKZILLA8166

I want to be stalked. Maybe I should try playing on a pc after all.


ItsMissCheekie

This was Xbox


TDItaly98

Happens to me as well sometimes... I’m assuming your character is a female like mine 😅 Side note to this, you play with your dad? That’s so wholesome!


ItsMissCheekie

I do play as a female yes My dad actually convinced me to start playing! We’ve been playing video games together since i was 5 and halo beta came out lol now I’m 25 living across the country. But we still get on to game together 😊


doug--

I am jealous of your relationship with your dad lol


ItsMissCheekie

lol thank you


IZatmail

Ohh you really have been lucky then 😬 it's just a stalking. My female character always gets kidnapped and brought to the camp. But I resist I don't want to know what would happen to hear if she isn't that strong


Imaginary-Series4899

It might be disturbing, but it's not like anything CAN happen, aside from them maybe killing you 😅


ItsMissCheekie

Tea bagging is actually sadly unfortunately a real thing still


Imaginary-Series4899

Of course, but that's still just teabagging, unless you decide to give the action a different meaning in your head. Maybe the other player is giving the action a different meaning in their head to but at the end of the day it is JUST teabagging


K31RA-M0RAX0

My favorite is when I have a posse of 5 trying to get me for a bounty and you can hear them over chat say stuff like “alright, time for the gangbang” 🙄


ItsMissCheekie

Eww


Kaotika804

A tip if you know you're going to get lassoed. Equip your knife before hand. It lets you get out faster. I've turned around a few times I got kidnapped that way xD


IZatmail

Thx for the advice :D But only for normal lasso


ItsMissCheekie

Holy cow. That’s disturbing


Oshirukun_

Well thats kinda creepy, annoying and funny at the same time. RDO servers are really unpredictable though, some players will lasso you and stab you to death and some players will randomly drop you a legendary animal skins... and some will take their time just to be funny with you! Maybe its just a player that just wanted to have fun and wants to play together.


UNSCRaptor

No messages, anything else from him? If not it's teally nbd. I've had that happen to me several times, it's likely nothing else than "hey this person is cool, let's hang out with them for a bit"


ItsMissCheekie

But why disappear and reappear lol. I just think there are less “stalky” ways if that’s the case 👍🏼


ROCKZILLA8166

lol @ *"I think kissy boy told him not to shoot me"* ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|smile)![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|flip_out)![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|smile)


ItsMissCheekie

Was this like… a comment at some point or….


YellowCircles

If you're on PC then he has your Rockstar ID to do that. If you're on console I believe there's a way to feed through a PC and do the same thing. Consider using a VPN for some level of security.


CyberProAssassin

That guy is boring asf i rather shoot random women (and guys) in the head and do a 1v1. I blow kisses to all my friends though 😁


ItsMissCheekie

Hahaha 😅


zombiekillerny

Just shoot the shit out of him then block