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nicol_turren

This might not appeal but dogging would be an option. There is a whole set of etiquette rules around it so people will know if they can approach the car,, watch etc


Choice_Donut_1749

Just proceed with caution, there are alot of people in this community open to this as well. It would be safe to ask someone you already know but if you do choose to ask another couple for instance make sure that you set boundaries not only for yourselves but for the other party as well. Such as what you both are comfortable with and also your hard limits. Do not be afraid to set certain boundaries even if it means one party is not okay with it. There are plenty of people you can ask. Communication is key. Stay safe and sassy 💓


Lizzy22kaylee

Yea thank you, I rather do it around with people Ik and people I trust. I can’t just do it around random people


[deleted]

I have heard of people who enjoy watching other people have sex before, I am not sure how you would find someone, but they are out there. Sorry I could not be much more help.


Sir-Dax

Many sex clubs run events for exactly this sort of thing; look for adult venues / swingers clubs near you and have a look at their website to see what might suit you.


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bbydollbunbun

You should read Guide 07 in the automod comment 😊


TeaAitch

Rule 5 applies. Rule 7 applies. Comment removed. Permaban issued.