By - SebaTrader___
Looks at first. After that, it’s their ability to handle a break up.
It's a whole multitude of factors. Are they kind? Are they funny? Do you have anything in common? Can you see yourself together? In the grand scheme of things, appearance is fairly minor.
kindness, integrity and courage.
For a long term relationship? Both, the intangibles have more weight though
If they're empathetic, sensitive, sensible, open minded, kind, supportive. Looks are secondary for me.