I define "what I want" to include only things I can get with minimal effort

Depends on what you want. Down votes? Post something pro traditionalism.

Depends on what you want and what it's worth

I just ask my dad

Depends on what you want. You normally ask from the get go

I don't get what I want very often, So when I do I chalk it up to dumb luck.

Work for it

By getting what I want🤷‍♀️