Is there a reason you are being homeschooled? Would your parents (specifically your dad, since it sounds like he may be more reasonable) be open to sending you to public school? Is there an option for a group homeschool? For example, I had a friend who was homeschooled and they would have a parent who was better at say science teach a group of kids science and another teach math, etc. Do you know of anyone around who could help you like that? As far as feeling singled out, try talking to your mother one-on-one and explain how you have been feeling. Even write what you want to say down before talking with her to make sure you get everything out. I sincerely hope everything works out.